The Truth About The Sweet Talking Partner

Lets be honest, we all like to hear sweet words from our partner, potential partner, or date. Those words reaches our heart and makes us feel good about ourselves. Words like ”you’re the most beautiful person in the world”, your eye shine brighter than all the stars in the night sky etc makes us feel good, have more sense of self worth, feel loved and valued, gives us a wonderful feeling.

Sounds fantastic and wouldn’t you want to be keep hearing that all the time? Will it last though? And for these sweet words to last it needs to be real so is it?

You know despite how wonderful those words make you feel, however in your heart you know yourself that those words are not true. You are not “the most beautiful person in the world” etc.

The truth about all those lovely words is that they are well, all BULLSHIT! So the person that is able to say all that is one able to bullshit. Keep that in mind. You know when a guy say those things to me the first thing I think of is “gee this guy can bullshit!” So do you want a partner that can bullshit? If you want to hear sweet talk then you have to choose someone that can bullshit.

You might feel good hearing all those lovely flattering words  but being able to bullshit and say nice words means they can lie and put up a mask. So how would you know the real them? What is the truth then? Do they really feel that way about you? You really won’t know.

However on the other hand you can’t just live on sweet words alone. Are they capable of anything else? Being able to solve problems and deal with life’s difficulties? This applies to both men and women. Can they change a car tyre, mow the lawn,  cook, pay bills, manage kids, a household, or their finances? What if you lost your job and interest rates went up? Would they be able to handle that situation?

Can you picture them being able to do any of that? Because if that’s all they can do is sweet talk then you will have to be responsible and do ALL that yourself. How would you feel if your partner left all the chores for you to do yourself because they are unable or unwilling to do it? How would you feel towards them? Would those sweet words they occasionally spew when the mood gets them be enough to compensate for all that?

So the next time you have a date doing sweet talk to you just sit back and enjoy it cause it honestly feels good. However remember that you have to take all of it with a BIG grain of salt and just observe their actions. Do they actually back up their words with actions? Otherwise those are just hollow words and they themselves are not good for anything other than sweet words. If that is the case then you can just treat listening to the sweet talk like listening to nice music and that is all.

What do you think? Do you like sweet talk and have you ever had a date or partner that was really great at it? If so let us know what happened.