How Does Your Partner Treat When You Are Sick?
When a person is sick, they are often vulnerable and in need of care and support. How a partner responds to their spouse's illness can be telling of their level of love and concern for them.
A partner who is caring and attentive when their spouse is ill is likely demonstrating their love and affection for them. This may involve taking time off work or other responsibilities to care for their sick partner, running errands for them, or simply being present to provide emotional support.
On the other hand, a partner who is indifferent or neglectful when their spouse is sick may not have the same level of love and concern for their well-being. This type of behaviour can be hurtful and can create feelings of resentment or lack of connection in the relationship. If a wife becomes frustrated or angry when her husband is sick, it could be a sign that she does not have as much emotional investment in the relationship. She may not be as patient or understanding, and may not go out of her way to help him feel better. This type of behaviour can be hurtful and make the person who is sick feel even worse.
A case in point is just imagine you suffered a health condition like a heart attack or stroke. Would she look after you during this time while you spent time recovering? Cook all the meals and help dress and bath you? Is she doesn’t work will she step up and start working to bring in some money when you are unable to, and keep you both afloat? It doesn’t need to be as much as what you would bring in but at least something to keep you both going while you recover. Just like if you had injured your right hand then your left hand will have to step up and take over the duties while your right hand recovers, otherwise you won’t be able to do anything. Your left hand won’t be as efficient or good as the right hand at doing the tasks but it doesn’t need to be, only do what is needed to get by until the right hand recovers and can resume its role as the dominate hand again.
You may even be able to see an indication of how she will behave and her true feelings for you before you marry by observing how she acts and treats you before you marry.
Andrew and Sarah went holidaying in the Philippines. Andrew got food poisoning and was throwing up constantly in the hotel room and was feeling seriously sick. He did not want to go to the hospital there as he did not have confidence in the hospital system there so just stayed in the hotel room hoping he will recover on his own. Sarah wasn’t going to let Andrew’s illness get in the way of her holiday so she left him in the hotel room by himself and went shopping instead.
If you were so ill like Andrew was you would want and need to be looked after as you were not in a position to look after yourself. However if your partner left you as you were not fun and left you to seek her own entertainment instead, how would you feel? When you are this ill, normally a loving partner would be besides themselves with concern and look after you until you were at least feeling well enough to look after yourself. However this case clearly shows that Sarah did not actually love Andrew and she has showed herself to be selfish. This would be a clear signal not to marry someone like Sarah as she would not be there for you when you need her.
In conclusion, how a partner treats their spouse when they are ill can be an indication of their feelings towards them. A loving and caring partner will go above and beyond to support their spouse during times of illness, while a neglectful or indifferent partner may not prioritize their well-being in the same way. When this happens it is a major red flag and shows that you absolutely should NOT marry her (if you want a caring partner and one that’s a team player), and also alludes to her lack of loyalty as well.
