Signs She Doesn’t Love You Anymore

When you are in a relationship with someone you expect her to love you which is why you are together. However feelings can change and women are known to hide their feelings well, so how do you tell if she doesn’t anymore?

She Barely Talks To You

Women naturally need to connect with people and talking is an important part of that. Before she may have talked to you about what she did during the day, who she likes and doesn’t like, issues that have come up. She would also discuss her problems with you and she will also listen to yours and you both discuss how to solve them. So when she has gone quiet and it indicates that she has disconnected from you emotionally, basically she has checked out emotionally. Which means she no longer views you as her partner in her heart. This may be gradual as she might have started talking to you less and less.

She Seems Irritable When She’s Around You

You may notice that she has become more snappy and short with you than before, in other words irritable when she’s around you. Because she has disconnected emotionally with you, she would have also lost respect and love for you then you have now become an irritant to her. Her eyes would no longer light up when they see you, instead she would rather not see you. This irritable behaviour of hers when she is around only you and no one else is a sure sign that she no longer loves you.

She Avoids Intimacy With You

This one is pretty obvious. Intimacy between a couple is more than the physical, it’s the emotional and melding of the mind as well as the body. Now because she has disconnected emotionally from you then it will also come through to the physical. That she has disassociated herself from you in her mind, this will flow through to the physical and she will also disassociate herself from you physically. She will firstly stop wanting to sleep with you, then make excuses not to. You will then also notice that regular affection such as kissing gets less and less and then she will actively avoid even kissing you. Physical affection comes from emotional affection so once the love and affection is no longer there then it will flow through to the physical and it will also no longer be there.

You Are Always Left Out Of Her Plans

As she disassociated herself from you, she no longer see you as a part of her life both unconsciously and consciously. Previously she would have discussed what she was doing with you, and you both discuss what you will be doing or going somewhere together and make decisions as a team. However things have changed and she goes ahead and makes decisions on her own without even letting you know beforehand. She might now plan what she would do by herself or with others that does not include you, that includes spending more and more time with her friends. She would not even inform you beforehand and might only tell you she is going when she is headed out the door. This is a sure sign that you are no longer sharing a life together as she has decided to stop sharing a life with you.

She Avoids Discussion Of Your Future Together

In the past, you may have both discussed your dreams and goals were and obviously how you were going to achieve them both one supporting the other and together. You may now find that she no longer brings it up with you, and also not want to talk about it when you bring it up. She being abrupt then getting up and leaving the room when you bring up the subject is a sure sign that she does not want a future with you. It is because she has disconnected from you emotionally she no longer sees you in her heart as her partner, and since that is the case then she will of course no longer discuss your future together as she no longer sees a future together with you.

She Starts Criticizing You 

Besides or in addition to being irritable around you, she may also start criticizing you. All the little habits that she may have found cute in the past now irritates her and she criticize you about them. She may also criticize the things you do that she never had before such as your cooking, way you hang out the washing, or how you mow the lawn. She may also criticize your ideas, your job that they are no longer good enough. This is a sure sign that she no longer values you, no longer hold you in esteem that she once did, because she no longer loves you.

She Puts You Down In Front Of Others

Following from her now criticizing you, it all comes down to her no longer respecting you. Now because of that she may put you down in front of others. It may be blatant such as pointing out your shortcomings (and apologise to others for them), like “oh sorry Geoff is hopeless with cars so he can’t help you with them” (a more subtle put down), or more blatant such as “don’t know why I ever married Geoff”. She may even leave the gathering on her own without telling you as she doesn’t want to be seen as your partner.

This is because again she no longer sees you as her partner which is why she is no longer proud of you and no longer has any qualms about how others perceive you as she is “no longer with you”.

 She Flirts With Others

Now this should be an obvious one though it still doesn’t gel with some people mainly because it involves emotions. When you are at a party or social gathering you may find that she hangs around the men more, and is laughing and more than happy to keep hanging around them or certain men she has connected with. Not just at a social gathering but instances like with new men both you and she meets, her interactions with them are warm and friendly beyond what the norm is. She may do this behaviour unconsciously as in her heart she now sees herself as a single woman. When she was single and out on the dating scene this was how she acted and she is just reverting back to that again, she is now a “single girl” again.

Conclusion

It may be hard to face or even acknowledge, but we need to face reality when the signs are there that we are no longer loved by our nearest and dearest. It is important as there will no longer be any point  to stay when there is no love and the signs are there when there isn’t, we just need to be able to identify them.