Wild Strong Independent Woman - A Good Choice?
We are conditioned by media and that a strong independent woman is desirable. The fact that those are the most praised and admired that they are considered the top and premium class of women, and implied that it is what all women should or at least aspire to be.
It is important to consider the unique challenges and strengths that come with this type of personality.
First, it is important to define what is meant by a "strong independent woman." This term can mean different things to different people, but generally refers to a woman who is confident, self-sufficient, and capable of standing up for herself and her beliefs. A strong independent woman may have a successful career, be financially independent, and be comfortable making decisions on her own.
One potential benefit of marrying a strong independent woman is that she is likely to be a partner who is able to support and encourage your own goals and ambitions. She may also bring a unique perspective and a range of valuable skills to the relationship.
However, it is important to recognize that a strong independent woman may also have certain characteristics that can present challenges in a marriage. For example, she may be used to making decisions on her own and may need to work on compromising and considering her partner's input. It may also be challenging for a strong independent woman to find a balance between independence and interdependence in the relationship.
Remember she would have strong opinions and like to do things their own way. They will likely think they don’t need anyone, least of all be attached to a man.
It might sound nice and think they would be interesting to have around, talk to, as women who are agreeable are seen to be “boring”. On the other hand, women who are good with housekeeping, are conservative, good cooks etc. would be seen as boring and not a challenge.
Now the wild independent woman would seem nice or even exciting to hang around however this brings lots of other implications. The person who likes to do things her own way would usually be selfish, think of themselves and not others where in a marriage or any sort of partnership you cannot be selfish.
If you just want someone to date and meet up with then an “interesting” partner will be the way to go as they will be fun and you only need to be entertained while you are with them. They would have no practical impact on your life.
However what would happen if you live with her? Or share a life with her? Raise a family with her?
If she constantly wants to be on the move once she gets bored and seek more excitement, how will she do if you need to settle down somewhere? What are the consequences if she is constantly unpredictable? You need to settle down if you want to raise children so will she be able to do that?
Even if you don’t have to want children, how would you feel if she might be with you then regularly will take off without notice as she is a “free spirit”? That she come and go and can’t be relied on to do anything.
The most important question is will she be able to put others before herself? Be unselfish? Able to think of others before herself? Because that’s what you have to do when you have a partner and unquestionably when you have children. Or will it still be her putting herself first before anyone else because she is used to being independent? Her wants before the children’s needs?
As with any relationship, it takes work and effort from both partners to create a successful and fulfilling marriage. Therefore, you will need to think carefully if you can live with the above traits and potentially have to do everything when she has her “moments” and decides to take off.
