The real reason why women seemingly “change” after marriage is because they presented a version of themselves to you in the beginning so the relationship could work. It gets tiring acting all the time so after a while they drop the act and revert back to being their true selves so they seemingly “changed” after you married, where the truth is they had changed in the beginning and are now being their true selves.

A wild strong independent woman at first thought seems very desirable as they would be interesting and fun to be around. However for many practical reasons they make a poor choice for marriage.